Sex + Money Coaching for Women and Couples

Collaborative, actionable coaching to help you gain confidence, navigate difficult conversations, and build the life you want.

 
 
  • Are you feeling stuck? 

  • Do you hold back communication with your partner?

  • Have you been delaying asking for a raise or promotion?

  • Are you happy with your financial planning?

 

Talking about sex can be scary.

Asking for what you need can be difficult.

Digging into finances can feel daunting. 

 
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You deserve to communicate openly, ask for what you need, take control, and build the life you want. 

But you don't have to do it alone.

 

TAKE YOUR PICK

  • Are you feeling stuck? 

  • Do you hold back communication with your partner?

  • Have you been delaying asking for a raise or promotion?

  • Are you happy with your financial planning?

 

Talking about sex can be scary.

Asking for what you need can be difficult.

Digging into finances can feel daunting. 

 
 

You deserve to communicate openly, ask for what you need, take control, and build the life you want. 

But you don't have to do it alone.

 

TAKE YOUR PICK

 
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1:1 or 1:2 sex coaching


You deserve to feel confident in your sexuality. 

The truth is, you are worthy of having a fulfilling sex life. You should have an understanding of how sex works for you. You’re entitled to understand what brings you pleasure, what feels right in your body, how you experience orgasm, what your partner likes and dislikes, and what sex means to you. 

The most exciting part? There are ways to figure all this out. You can develop the skills you need to talk about, engage in, and experience sex in a confident and empowering way. I'd love to help you get there.

 
 
 
 

What you'll get:


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You'll start by building confidence through exercises, activities, and conversations.

By talking about what makes you feel good about yourself, what makes you feel less good, and understanding what you can change, you'll see things more clearly, allowing us to build a plan to get you to where you want to go.

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You'll learn everything you ever wanted to know about sex.

There is no such thing as an "off-limits" question. You can ask me anything you want, knowing that there's zero judgment. No questions are too big, too small, or too intimate. Seriously.

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You'll build a new narrative for how you see your sex life.

Unpacking the stories you've told yourself and debunking myths you believe around sex is freeing. We'll correct misinformed, limiting, and harmful beliefs and create a new narrative that fits with who you are and who you want to be.

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You'll have a coach to help you with any concerns you have.

Sex can be complicated, and the societal taboo surrounding this topic can add to that complication. I'm here to speak frankly about this stuff. Some topics might include:

  • Low or no sexual desire

  • Early ejaculation (male)

  • Erectile dysfunction (male)

  • Body dysphoria (body image issues)

  • Sexual Inhibition

  • The desire for enhanced pleasure

  • Preorgasmic Primary (female) - can't reach orgasm alone or with a partner

  • Preorgasmic Secondary (female) - can't reach orgasm with a partner

  • Painful sex

  • Little or no sex in the relationship

  • Touch styles

  • Uneven desire between partners

  • Communication style conflicts

  • Conflicting values

  • Lack of performance skills 

  • Lack of negotiation skills 

 

“Jess’ present demeanor and accepting nature make her easy to talk to. Her insights have helped me years after working with her.”

I met Jess when I was going through a difficult time in my life. Right from the start, she made me feel like she wanted to hear what I had to say. Her clarifying questions made it feel like she was guiding me through my own experience. I highly recommend working with Jess if you feel stuck in your sexuality and are ready for a change.

~ Seth L.

 
 
 

Are you ready to become your most sexually confident self?

Let's chat so I can help you figure out the next steps in your journey.

 
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Are you ready to become your most sexually confident self?

Let's chat so I can help you figure out the next steps in your journey.

 
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1:1 or 1:2 finance coaching


You have the power to take control of your finances.

Unfortunately, we're not taught how to do it, especially as women. Many people grow up in households where money wasn’t discussed either because it was a struggle or because it was seen as taboo. Now's the time to change your relationship with money and feel more secure when looking at your personal and partnered finances. 

As a hiring manager and as someone who's experienced the challenges of financial mistreatment, I can help you navigate these waters.

 
 
 

What you'll get:


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You'll start by building confidence through discussions and planning.

I'm here to be your sounding board. Let's talk through all your money questions, your fears, your desires, and your future plans.

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You'll get help with your 401(k).

So many people assume that because they have a 401(k) through their employer, they're getting all the benefits they need. The reality is that you may be missing out. Let's review your retirement plan and maximize your opportunities from an employer and a federal cap perspective.

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You'll learn how and when to ask for a raise or a promotion.

First, we'll discuss your current employment status and the outcome you want to achieve. Then, we'll practice different scenarios so you can process how you'll feel in the moment, minimize your emotional reaction, and feel confident asking for what you want.

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You'll develop a safe place to find common ground around finances with your partner.

Managing finances in a partnership can be tricky, mainly because there's no one-size-fits-all solution. But, by working together, I can help you figure out how to share expenses, discuss personal money habits, and create a shared agreement that works well for both of you.

 
 

“I finally have the financial understanding and the confidence I need to have a voice and to know my worth.”

Before working with Jess, I felt like I was consistently underpaid and unsure of the value my skill-set brought to the table. She provided the tools and guidance I needed to grow my understanding of financial literacy, take ownership of my self-worth, and move my life forward in a healthy way.

~ Ilana P.

 
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Are you ready to take control of your finances?

Let's chat so I can help you figure out the next steps in your journey.

 
 

Are you ready to take control of your finances?

Let's chat so I can help you figure out the next steps in your journey.

 
 

PRICING

FOR SEX COACHING + FINANCE COACHING

 
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 SINGLE SESSIONS


 
  • 1:1 private coaching $75

  • 1:2 partnered coaching $125

 

1:1 private COACHING


  • 3 months + Voxer support $840

  • 6 months + Voxer support $1,560

  • 12 months + Voxer support $2,800

    * PAYMENT PLANS AVAILABLE

1:2 PARTNERED COACHING


 
  • 3 months + Voxer support $1,440

  • 6 months + Voxer support $2,760

  • 12 months + Voxer support $5,280

    * PAYMENT PLANS AVAILABLE

 

PRICING

FOR SEX COACHING + FINANCE COACHING

 
 
 

 SINGLE SESSIONS

 

  • 1:1 private coaching $75

  • 1:2 partnered coaching $125

 
 

1:1 COACHING


  • 3 months + Voxer support $840

  • 6 months + Voxer support $1,560

  • 12 months + Voxer support $2,800

    * PAYMENT PLANS AVAILABLE

 

1:2 PARTNERED COACHING

 

  • 3 months + Voxer support $1,440

  • 6 months + Voxer support $2,760

  • 12 months + Voxer support $5,280

    * PAYMENT PLANS AVAILABLE

 

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

  • Absolutely! If you sign up for a package, we can talk about anything. No topic is off the table. However, if you sign up for a single session, we'll only be able to talk about one (sex or money). These are such juicy topics that there's not enough time to discuss both in an hour.

  • Each package includes 3 weekly one-hour zoom sessions to be held during the first 3 weeks of each month. The 4th week of each month is integration week. This gives you time to reflect and further implement the work. You’ll also have access to me via Voxer*.

    This equates to 3 sessions per month, or anywhere from 9-36 sessions depending upon the package you purchase.

    *for Voxer, I will respond within 24 hours of receiving your message, with exceptions for weekends and holidays.

  • Nope, due to the nature of our work together refunds are not available.

  • While there are some overlaps between coaches and therapists, it's important to understand the difference. Therapists work with clients to examine past experiences, the resulting emotions, and their effect on the present person. As a coach, I listen to your past experiences to understand who you are, but my focus is on making plans for the future. We'll work together to map out how you can get from where you are to where you want to be. These roadmaps can include (but are, of course, not limited to):

    • Coming out to friends and family

    • Asking a partner to try new things

    • Learning to navigate your body

    • Gaining confidence in yourself

    • Developing language to talk about sex and intimacy

  • You are normal. There's nothing wrong with you. Sex is a fluid, multi-dynamic thing, and there's no one-size-fits-all expression. We all have different things that make us feel good. Your autonomy starts at the top of your head and ends at your toes. Whatever you do with your body is okay. As long as you aren't causing harm to another person, you're normal, beautiful, and will be accepted here.

  • Let’s chat! While my specialty is with women and couples, I am open to working with anyone. Please book a discovery call so we can chat and see if we’re a good fit.

  • I am a white, cis-gendered, heterosexual woman who is continuously doing work around anti-racism, diversity, equity, belonging, and inclusion. I believe in my ability to coach anyone, but if at any time I mess up and make a mistake, I am open to a conversation and finding ways and resources to make your experience better. My intention is to make this a safe space while consistently growing and being the best person that I can be to do so.

  • Yes, sex coaching is strictly communication-based. It does not involve any physical exchange between you and me. Nor does it involve me watching you have sex and coaching you along. I have a strict no-nudity policy for all my coaching and classes. These boundaries are set for your safety and mine. If there’s ever a point where you or I feel a boundary has been crossed, I will refer you to a new coach.

  • Financial advisors advise their clients on things like investment management, asset and liability overviews, and tax planning. As a money coach, I work with individuals who want to understand their finances better so they can make more informed decisions. First, I'll help you organize your personal income and spending so you have an overview of your accounts. Then, I'll help you find ways to better communicate about money so you'll have the confidence to talk to bosses, partners, and family members. I can also assist you with retirement benefits, interview prep, and asking for a raise.

 

Are you ready to gain more confidence in your sexual and financial life?

Let's chat so I can help you figure out the next steps in your journey.